You do not just feel things; you act on them, at speed, with style. The apology becomes a letter, the crush becomes a plan, the friend's bad month becomes a surprise at their door. Feeling, for you, is a reason to go somewhere.
The cost is the distance between the gesture and the follow-through. The letter was easy; the third month of showing up is harder. You fall for beginnings — of people, of causes — and beginnings keep needing to be replaced when the middle gets ordinary.
The Knight of Cups rides slowly, cup steady — speed is not the point of this knight, direction is. Pick fewer quests and finish them. The romance you are looking for lives in the part after the gesture, and you are better at it than you think.