You are the one who takes two things that should not go together and finds the ratio that makes them work. In arguments, in plans, in your own contradictions — you look for the blend rather than the winner.
That instinct keeps a lot of things from breaking, and it has occasionally kept something alive that should have been allowed to end. Not everything wants balancing. Some things want a decision.
Temperance pours between two cups and never spills. It is a card about patience with a slow process, which is the sort of patience nobody applauds. It is still the reason several things around you are still standing.