You have a low tolerance for arrangements that are quietly not working. Where others manage decline for years, you reach a point where the pretending costs more than the collapse would, and you stop.
It has made your life less smooth and considerably more honest. The things still standing around you are standing because they can, not because everyone agreed not to push.
The Tower is the card people least want to draw. But what falls in the image was built on a bad footing, and the lightning only found what was already there. You tend to see the footing early. That is not destructiveness — it is sight.