Your villain form knows exactly what it's doing and does it anyway, which you consider a form of honesty. The 3 a.m. scroll, the person you re-text, the cart you re-fill — all fully documented by the analyst in your head who has never once been consulted before the purchase.
Your special move is enabling others so you have company: 'we deserve this' is your love language. You have talked a friend into dessert with the persuasive power of a defense attorney whose client is also dessert.
But here's your secret advantage: you SEE the chain, clearly, which most people never do. The picture's chains are loose — that's the entire card. You can put it down whenever you decide it's the actual last one. Decide once.